Do you find it easy to ask for support?Well I know that this is something I have faced recently, and I have spoken to many clients over the years who also said that the pride often gets in the way, and our expectation is in the wrong place.
So what does it take to move that pride out of the way and get support from those around us?
And how come we always presume that support has to come from families?
Well this week I acknowledged and experienced something quite profound, and I have decided that it should be shared with the world.
For many years I took on a global belief that support should and has to come from family members, and many of us often pin that responsibility on a sibling, and over the past week I got to realise and experience this is not the truth.
There is a much deeper story here than I am giving but to give you the idea so that you can get support from areas which you probably never dreamed it could come from, and the empowering and liberating effect it can bring.
When I was recently told that I had breast cancer, there were a host of other things which came to mind which upset me more than being told about the cancer, and I recognised them as being "where is my support" "what is the reason my family are not here to do that for me" and there were a hundred other questions in there for me.
I am not saying that everyone has this issue, but for those that do then here is some profound information for you.
When I realised that it was the thought of not being supported and not having any support that I recognised a global belief pattern.
So I looked further for the information which was holding this pattern in place, and with a little digging around and going through some fears I found the underlying issue.
Upon releasing my "misconception" and opening myself up to support from many other streams, it happened over night.
I received supporting words of encouragement and prayers, from all the people who I contacted in my email list, clients, friends, people who I did not know very well but had been in contact with once or maybe twice and I asked them to ask their friends if they would also do the same for me, and I found asking to be quite overwhelming and uplifting all at the same time.
I was totally amazed that once I put my pride to one side, and let go of the false belief which was holding me back from asking for assistance in the first instance, everything turned into a miracle.
It has been a truly amazing experience, and I have learnt something so profound I am honoured and grateful to everyone for helping me to see this and know this.
I hope that by reading this you will also acknowledge and see that the most profound assistance and help does not always have to come from family, and that it is available from many other sources if you just open yourself to experience it.
For more information on my work and how you can open yourself up into a space which is liberating and breathtakingly beautiful and empowering, go to my website at:
One of the emails I was sent had an amazing story attached, which I have put on video as it has inspired me so much and I now wish to share that with the world as well.
So here it is for you to watch.
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